A HISTORY OF
ST. STEPHEN’S
CHURCH
1851 – 1963
by
James Elliott Lindsley
Copyright 1961 by the
Rector,
Wardens and Vestrymen of St. Stephen’s Church,
Dedicated to Barbara
Illustration (i) – Interior St. Stephen’s Church, Millburn, NJ –
1880)
FOREWORD
We, who are inheritors of the Judeo-Christian tradition, believe that God can be seen in history. We believe that the processes of man and his development are broadly guided. The Hebrew saw the transcendence and the immanence of God spelled out in the fortunes of his people. The Christian looks to a specific time in history when “the Word was made flesh’ and dwelt among us. Therefore, time, and what goes on in a span of time, are relevant in our religious lives.
It seems to me that a religious community, a parish church, ought to remember its past as well as its present and future. This is especially true of a church like St. Stephen’s - a church which has had a varied past, and (because it is placed in a vital part of the world) certainly has responsibilities in the future. Men have gone before us who have seen their work crowned with success. Others probably felt bitter disappointment that success, as the world measures it, was not theirs. Challenges have been turned into victories or defeats. The generations have come and gone - very few names are left to us. But through all this, the Word has been celebrated, honored, reverenced.
St. Stephen’s Church is a small parish, but in its lifetime of 110 years it has made valuable contributions to the Church at large and to the community. It has a history which should be told. Therefore, this book is offered with the hope that it will serve not only as a record, but also an inspiration for the future.
I want to thank our secretary, Miss Livingston, for all her help with this manuscript.
James Elliott Lindsley
The Rectory
CONTENTS
Appendices
Appendix I Memorials and Gifts
Appendix II Wardens and Vestrymen
Appendix III Delegates to Convention
Illustrations
Illustration (i) Reproduction of painting of church interior, 1880
Illustration (ii) Exterior St. Stephen’s Church pre-1860
Illustration (iii) The Cemetery Lodge
Illustration (iv) St. Stephen’s Rectory, built 1868-1869
A HISTORY OF ST.
STEPHENS CHURCH IN
Bishops of the Diocese
George Washington Doane
William H. Odenheimer
Rectors of the Parish
Horace Hall Reid
George C. Pennell
William Colvin Brown
Lewis P. Clover
Henry Palethorpe Hay
Brockholst Morgan
William Bryce Morrow
The
roots of the Episcopal Church in
By the time of the American War of Independence, the Episcopal Church
in
John Marshall was mistaken. He did not realize that great forces were
already at work in the Episcopal Church that the dawn was even then breaking
upon the day of revival and growth. One of the great forces was in the person
of John Henry Hobart, Bishop of New York. Bishop Hobart retained the rectorate
of
Slowly, the older Episcopal parishes in the cities began to grow. New
ones were founded, especially after the Oxford Movement
of the 1830’s and its implications struck Church people in America.
The facts relative to the founding of St. Stephen’s Church in Millburn
are well recorded in several extant chronicles. The
Parish Register of our church tells part of the story, as does a historical
sketch published in the St. Stephen s Outlook in June, 1920. Most important is
the record in the biography of Eugene Augustus Hoffman. Hoffman was graduated
from the General Theological Seminary in
Millburn
was a town of 600 inhabitants, a mile from Springfield, the scene of many
Revolutionary events, and was at the foot of the Short Hills, where Bishop
Hobart had his country residence and where he had wished to locate the General
Theological Seminary. About 1852, when Mr. Hoffman was missionary at Elizabethport,
he became interested in this little village, and as there was no religious
service of any kind in the place, he determined from time to time to hold
services of the Church there. He was aided in this work by Mr. Israel D. Condit.
The population generally had never, it is believed, seen a Prayer Book or a
surplice. The congregation, beginning with about forty or fifty, soon
increased to a hundred and twenty.
This, in brief, tells the story of the beginnings of St. Stephen’s
Church. Some remarks are in order. Inasmuch as “the Short Hills” was a
summering place for people from
From the historical sketch in the first Parish Register we learn that
the first Episcopal services in Millburn
were held on December 17, 1851
in “the public School House”, and that there were only two Episcopalians
in the vicinity at that time. This school house was located on
Needless to say, the area called
Millburn,
at various times in its earlier history, was known as Rum Brook, Riverhead,
Vauxhall, and Croton. But by
reason of the mills in the vicinity it became known as Millville
. . . As late as 1835 there was at
The municipality now called
It may be said that St. Stephen’s Church is the oldest existing corporate body in Millburn. I know of no business or institution within the town which is older. The White Oak Ridge Chapel had been organized as a Sunday School association in 1831, but it is believed that St. Stephen’s Church is the oldest re1igious body in continual existence.
The first services of the Church, held in
the old schoolhouse and in Mr. James’ Hall, attracted people of varied
religious backgrounds. Such names as Condit,
Campbell, Lyon and Allcock are mentioned in the
earliest parish records. These were people well known in
The
The oldest possession of St. Stephen’s Church is a large English Bible, published by Eyre and Spottiswood in 1847. It was given to the parish in its earliest days by five people, and cost $17.50.
Throughout 1852, the number of people attending the services in Mr.
James’ Hall increased. Obviously, the worship of the Episcopal Church
commended itself to the inhabitants of
NOTICE
is
hereby given to the members of the Protestant Episcopal Church in Millville,
and to those who desire to associate themselves with said Church, that a
meeting will be held in Millville, on the nineteenth day of January, at their
usual place of worship, the building of Mr. James, immediately after evening
service (service to commence at 7-1/2 P.M.) for the purpose of taking measures
necessary to incorporate said Church, agreeably to “an Act to incorporate
religious societies worshipping according to the customs and usages of the
Protestant Episcopal Church” passed 17 February, 1829.
Eugene Augustus Hoffman, Minister
(N.
B. The Bishop of the Diocese is
expected to be present on the occasion).
Two days before the advertised meeting, a group of people met at the
home of Israel Condit and formed a slate of
Vestrymen. The two Wardens were to be Israel D. Condit
and George W. Campbell. The Vestrymen were Isaac M. Hand, Hugh Allcock,
Isaac Martin, Amzi Condit,
William Marshall, Thomas C. Bradbury, and Edward Clayton. At the same meeting
in Mr. Condit’s house, a committee was appointed
to choose a name for the new parish. On the stated Sunday evening,
The first Vestry meeting was held on
In the Spring of 1853, Mr. Condit
offered the parish a lot of land on
The architect, Mr. Priest, drew the designs for the new church in
What was this church which the people of St. Stephen’s built in 1854? As it stands today it is almost the same as when used for worship, although it was later lengthened. There is a generous nave, with pews fashioned of hard oak according to the taste of the earlier American Gothicists. There are three aisles, a main aisle and two side alleys. The chancel steps are broad and lead to a theatre which has clergy stalls on either side. The sanctuary is not deep, but ample for the needs of a country church. There is a small room off the chancel, formerly the Vestry, and now used as the Sacristy. For many years, the Vestrymen held their meetings in this room, which was warmed by a small stove. The base of the tower was intended for the organ console and pipes; there is a fine carved screen dividing this space from the nave. There is also a tower room, reached by a steep flight of steps, but in all probability this has never been used, though the architect probably intended it to be a meeting room.
The original plastered walls were smooth and tinted. The window and arch returns had plastered moldings, terminating in floral motifs. These were not reintroduced after the renovations of 1928, and therefore the church has lost a measure of the architectural lightness it originally possessed. The glass in the windows was of the type then “bought by the yard”. St. Stephen’s Church was built before the Victorian taste turned to the darker shades, and thus the clerestory windows are fitted with bright red and blue glass. The East window is of lighter blue and yellow tones. The nave lancets were filled with peach-colored diamond-shaped panes, with either red or blue borders; these made the nave dance with light. There is a West Rose Window, also predominantly red, matching the clerestory windows. The “five sisters” lancets below it are filled with glass of the grisaille type, and on a sunny afternoon they throw shafts of white light down the length of the nave. The windows of the church were planned with care, and those responsible for them recognized the importance of light in a Gothic type building. Unfortunately, the nave windows have been lost to us, but succeeding generations will rejoice in the duty still done by the gay clerestory windows and those on the east and west ends of the church.
The piers of the nave, and their arches, are of chamfered oak which, by local tradition, was cut on the property when the church was built. The wooden ceiling, high above the pews, was at one time painted light blue, with gold stars. Though the church is built in a medium, wood, which can never truly express the Gothic ideal, it captures to an amazing degree the Gothic spirit of vista and appreciation of component parts. When it was built, a newspaper of the day carried the following account:
The
church is one that needs more than passing notice. The plan which was
furnished by Mr. J. W. Priest was thoroughly a wooden one, with no mock
buttresses to deceive the eye, nor sham furring out and blocking off of walls
to represent stone. Everything is real, and just what it pretends to be. We
wish churchmen who are building churches would recollect that there is no
beauty in imitations; and that if men see in the House of God lies told in
wood or plaster, they will too often think the whole of religion is but a
sham. The church consists of a nave, with a spire on the north of chancel.
Orientation is observed, the chancel standing on the street. We could not but
be struck with the superior beauty of the “coup d’oeil”
of the chancel, sacristy, and tower, with the nave rising behind them, over
the effect which would have been produced had the chancel been placed at the
west end for the sake of the street. The building will seat about 300 persons,
and is one of the prettiest modern country churches we have seen. The whole
cost including the bell and the organ was about $9,000, of which a very large
proportion was paid by one individual, who gave the ground.
It has been stated that St. Stephen’s was a natural descendant of the
white
It is fortunate that through the years St. Stephen’s Church has been
only slightly altered. If any of the original builders were to return to us
they would readily recognize the church today. Only a few changes have been
made. Electric lights have been added. The Font has been moved slightly. Some
windows have been removed. But for the most part the people of St. Stephen’s
(happily!) did not have the means to “modernize” its church at that time
when many another fine parish church was undergoing drastic and disastrous
changes in the later Victorian and Edwardian eras. Because of this, the church
retains lines and feelings which make it more and more appreciated as a
significant example of rural wooden Gothic architecture at its best. It is
perhaps worth mentioning that J. B. Priest designed another church almost
exactly like St. Stephen’s: the
There is a tradition that the first baptism in the church took place
before the building was completed; the child was William John, son of John and
Mary Hamilton. If the tradition is true, the stone Font was not used, for this
Font was partially provided by funds given at the consecration of the church,
While the church was in process of erection, services were maintained
by the congregation in Mr. James’ Hall. The
Reverend Eugene A. Hoffman officiated at many of these services, but in the Spring
of 1853 he became the rector of the newly-formed
The church was ready for use in the summer of 1855. One of the earliest decisions was that the pews would be rented at the Annual Meeting following. The pews in the main portion of the nave were to be rented at twelve dollars a year; the pews in the side aisles would be eight dollars. (It should be remembered that at this time the nave was considerably less long than it now is; there were no pews to rent westward of the main door).
One of the mistakes of our forefathers was the reliance upon only a few people for the bulk of church support. The richer the man, the more prominent his pew; the more prominent the pew, the more it cost. There were always a few seats reserved for poorer people, and for strangers. But for the most part, parochial income was derived from pew rents. And a precarious income it was! If for any reason several pewholders gave up their pews within a quarterly period (rents were paid quarterly), then the parish treasurer would indeed be in a tight position. There was at his time no method of systematic giving, no every member canvass, no broad base of parish support.
On
At that Vestry meeting in August, 1855 it was decided that number
plates should be purchased for the pews. The men present must have discussed
another and more important matter: finding a rector for the parish. Since Mr.
Hoffman’s time was now taken up with the new
One of the earlier developments of Mr. Reid’s ministry in
When St. Stephen’s
Church was founded, in 1851, it was the only Episcopal parish in southern
The early Registers of St. Stephen’s Church show that its members
came from far and wide. We read of people who lived in
It is clear that Mr. Reid was in poor health. Certainly the care of his
far-flung parish taxed his energies and strength, and the charge of the new
church in South Orange
made his work even more demanding. On
.
. . I have come to the determination to request your acceptance of my
resignation of the Rectorship of St. Stephen’s
Church to take effect on the first day of October next . . . I cannot
contemplate a separation from those to whom I am bound by many ties of
grateful affection without some degree of regret, but considerations affecting
the health and comfort of my family render it necessary. Besides, I am
persuaded that if at any time I could resign the responsibility of my
incumbency, it is in the present prosperous state of its affairs.
Mr. Reid went to the health spas of
There can be no doubt that the affairs of St. Stephen’s Church were, as he had said, prosperous at the time of Mr. Reid’s departure from the parish. The future was so promising that it was decided to complete the church building by adding the two western bays. While the working plans for this and other improvements were under consideration, the Vestry, in October, 1859, called the Reverend George C. Pennell to be the second rector of St. Stephen’s. He was called “at a salary of Eight Hundred Dollars per annum and a Parsonage which is in progress of erection”. It seems that Mr. Condit was then building a house which he intended to give to the use of the rector of St. Stephen s.
The future looked bright, and therefore the Vestry proceeded with its
plans to enlarge and embellish the church. The two western bays were added in
1859-60. Designs were ordered for
the font cover, the Reid tablet, the alms box, some tables and the bishop’s
chair. A
The War between the States was imminent, but
optimism prevailed at St. Stephen’s. In recognition of Mr. Pennell’s
institution as rector of the parish, a chased silver Communion Service was
purchased from the
In 1860, the organist was paid $300.00 a year. We do not know anything about the first organ in St. Stephen’s; it was probably one of those fine-tuned instruments which are now sought-after, but which in the late Victorian period were replaced by heavier but less worthy pipe organs. The sexton was paid $120.00 a year, and the organ blower received $20.00. Thirty-nine pews were rented in 1860, and ten were declared “forever free” and reserved for strangers. Also, in 1860 St. Stephen’s contributed $17.00 to the “Kansas Sufferers”. The proposed budget that year showed that the Vestry expected to receive $1,046.00 from pew rents, and an additional $400.00 from weekly Offerings.
This optimism was short-lived. Trouble soon descended upon the parish. By April of 1861, the rector’s salary was six months in arrears. The bills from the architect had not been paid. A number of expensive forms for the church and cemetery had been printed, and the printer was also unpaid. Letters went back and forth between the creditors and the Clerk of the Vestry. Finally, the printer brought suit against the church and, a week later, the rector resigned. It seems that the parish owed Mr. Pennell $1,300.00 at this time, and the Vestry gave him a demand note for that amount.
In the light of these pressing difficulties, a lighter irrelevant note in the Minutes of the Vestry is amusing: “The Chairman suggests that the present mode of ringing the bell has a tendency to confuse”.
The third rector of St. Stephen’s was the Reverend William Colvin
Brown who came to
There is no record of an Annual Meeting in 1862, but regular parish meetings were held thereafter. On April18th, 1865, the Vestry “Resolved that the Church be draped with mourning in token of respect for our lamented President”.
Mr. Brown resigned
At
a meeting of the Vestry in the Vestry room on Monday evening . . . Resolved
that the Rectorship of this Church be declared
vacant . . . Resolved that a Copy of this resolution signed by all the members
present be presented to the Reverend Dr. Hay.
Again, money problems had caused sensitive feelings. The next Vestry
meeting found the rector present, and the Vestry decided then to raise
additional funds for the parish. But within a few weeks Dr. Hay had left
The Vestry called the Reverend John H. Hobart, Jr., who then lived in
his father’s old place in Short Hills. Mr. Hobart declined the offer. In
January, 1867, the Reverend Brockholst Morgan, a
deacon, accepted the call to be rector. Mr. Morgan had graduated from the
General Theological Seminary in 1865, and had been ordained by Bishop Potter
of
It was thought that if a Rectory could be built for the rectors of St.
Stephen’s, some of the greater problems of the parish would be solved. There
would be an adequate house for the rector and his family, and there would also
be a place for meetings. The plans of Harrison Condit
had been approved as early as 1860, but the War and the insolvency of the
parish prevented its building. When Brockholst
Morgan came to the rectorate, this project was
again taken in hand. The people of St. Stephen’s felt justified in
considering this because there were signs of growth in the parish. Land was
available next to the church, on the corner of
Inasmuch as St. Stephen’s Rectory has become a landmark
in
The original designs for the Rectory called for a basement kitchen, but
this was impracticable because the
The public rooms of the Rectory were built in the spacious manner of the day. The study bookcases had traceried doors whose design was repeated in the verge boards of the dormers and gables on the roof. There was a separate door outside provided for the study, and steps from both ends of the side porch gave easy access to this door. The floors throughout the house were wide pine floors, unfinished. This called for the wall-to-wall Brussells or ingrain carpeting; at a later time, straw matting was installed on the second floor. All of the principal rooms had fireplaces. Coal fires kept the house more or less warm. Recently, I was shown a glass vase whose owner told me that it was once in the Rectory. When I remarked upon a large crack in the vase, I was told that that happened when the water in the vase froze; so cold was the Rectory. Matters have improved somewhat since then! In the 1890’s the fireplaces were removed and the flues used for hot air pipes from a new furnace. This system was probably never very successful in heating the Rectory, and in 1934 a steam heating plant was installed.
Some of the Rectory rooms did not have fireplaces, and there wood stoves were used. All of the attic rooms were heated in this way, and there was once a chimney in the front end of the long roof which allowed use of a stove in the upper hall.
Fortunately, the Rectory has not lost its character and charm with the passage of years. There are new floors in the first floor, and woodwork once stained dark is now white. The mantlepieces have been removed from the upstairs bedrooms and, unfortunately, the window blinds and original slate roof, with its ecclesiastical designs, have gone. The house now enjoys all the conveniences of the twentieth century, but at the same time it retains much of the atmosphere of the past. It is a beloved landmark in Millburn.
In all probability, Brockholst Morgan did
not live in the Rectory. In July of 1869, the year of its completion, he
resigned the rectorate to become rector of St.
Marks Church, Chicago. Within a month, the Vestry extended a call to the
Reverend William Bryce Morrow. Mr. Morrow was born in
At the same time that the Vestry called Mr. Morrow to the rectorate,
1869, Miss Mary Amelia Park was asked to assume the duties of parish choir
leader and organist.
Another familiar sight in
The fact that
From these improvements, we might well deduce that Mr. Morrow was maintaining the high church traditions under which St. Stephen’s had been founded. There were two other experiments which further indicate this: an attempt at abolishing pew rents, and the foundation of St. Stephen’s School.
The free church plan was adopted in 1872. It immediately produced a deficit! In 1873, pews were again rented. This method of finding parish income was continued until its slow disappearance in the twentieth century. In the meantime, annual subscriptions and the envelope system had augmented the funds which came from pew rents. The free church idea was, generally speaking, a high church ideal and in all probability Mr. Morrow stood strongly in favor of it.
The establishment of St. Stephen’s School was a much more ambitious project. The school was well described in the centennial booklet of 1951, but since it is an integral part of the St. Stephen’s story, further mention of it should be made here.
The idea of the parish school was “in the air” in the middle years
of the nineteenth century. Municipal education was frequently very poor.
Academies were common in the towns throughout
There were four outstanding events at St. Stephen’s in the nineteenth
century: the founding of the parish and the building of the church, the
setting apart of the cemetery, the establishment of St. Stephen’s School,
and the building of the first Parish House. In the first three of these,
Israel Dodd Condit took a leading part. When the
school was suggested, in 1870, Mr. Condit offered
a house for its use. This was “The Mountain House” on
It so happened that at this time the rector of St. Matthew’s Church
in
St. Stephen’s School never fully achieved its purpose of educating the children of families of modest income. Those children went to the public schools, or were apprenticed at an early age to a trade. Since St. Stephen’s School was the only private school in the area, it was patronized by the wealthier families, and thus it failed of its initial aim.
Dr. Rosé continued a familiar figure at St. Stephen’s for some years, however. He occasionally took services in the church, and during Dr. Clover’s time as rector he was locum tenens for a year. It was during that winter that the vase, mentioned above, froze in the Rectory.
During Mr. Morrow’s rectorship, the
present altar of St. Stephen’s Church was set in place. There is a small
note in the parish register which states that the treasurer was authorized to
pay for moving the altar, reredos and paneling
from Grace Church in
William Bryce Morrow resigned the rectorship
of St. Stephen’s in 1874 and moved to
Dr. Clover, a member of an old
At
the same time that the
Both the
The improvements at St. Stephen’s in this period were of a mundane sort: new gas fixtures were added to the church in 1876 (costing $173.00). Two years later, there was a new furnace. And in 1880 a Brussells carpet was laid in the chancel, and grass mats for the nave aisles; the total cost of this was $88.03. In the same year, a burglar alarm was installed in the Rectory, and the parish received its first legacy, $250.00 from William Brown. In 1881, the Vestry resolved to allow the rector $50.00 a year for the keep of his horse.
These changes were only some of the lighter concerns of the Vestry. In addition, there was the ever-recurring problem of the annual deficits. The source of the trouble was the Victorian mode of raising money through pew rents and subscriptions. It was a problem which remained constant for many years, and will recur in this story. The pews were rented on a yearly basis, and quarterly statements were mailed to those who had taken pews. Plate offerings were usually devoted to special causes. There was no method of gaining the proportional support of the whole parish.
The result of such hand-to-mouth financing was that a substantial deficit was produced every year. Then, the Vestrymen would either divide the deficit among themselves, or ask wealthy members of the parish to assume the burden of the debt. The deficit for 1872 was $1,094.05 - a very large amount in those days. The amount for 1875 was even larger: $1,456.47. Mr. Morrow had encouraged the parish to attempt a more realistic method of church support: the annual subscription on a broad basis. That attempt had failed, and Mr. Morrow had resigned. It is apparent that his successor, Dr. Clover, was unable to offer any other solution, and therefore the deficits re-appeared annually. It is also quite clear that St. Stephen’s was not attracting the new people moving into the Township. In 1879, only twenty pews were rented. The census for 1880 showed 1,741 people living in the town.
The situation was a disheartening one, but there was a more ominous factor: the people in Short Hills were talking of beginning another Episcopal church. Mr. Hartshorn had intended a Short Hills community with all facilities. He had provided for a railroad station, a music hall, and soon he would give land for a private school. He was ready to give land for a church, too, and since many of the families in “the Park” (as it was often called) were Episcopalian, it is natural that they would want that church to be of their faith. Moreover, a deadly sense of dissatisfaction and despair seems to have set in at St. Stephen’s.
In the Spring of 1882, a number of parishioners of St. Stephen’s, together with others who had never attended the church, petitioned the Bishop and Standing Committee of the Diocese of Newark for permission to organize an Episcopal Church in Short Hills. This petition was at once opposed by the Rector, Warden, and Vestrymen of St. Stephen’s s in a letter which complained that the Bishop and Standing Committee had -
.
. . appointed a meeting for certain disaffected members of the church at
Millburn, and received an application from them, taking steps toward the
organization of a new parish at Short Hills, without giving the Wardens and
Vestrymen of the church at Millburn any official notice of what was in
contemplation that they might be properly represented and informed of the
proceeding.
Dr. Clover felt that the bishop should prevent the beginnings of that
church which soon was named
At
the annual meeting of the congregation on the night of Easter Tuesday, April
11th, 1882, for the election of Wardens and Vestrymen for the ensuing year,
after an uninterruptedly harmonious relation the Rector presented his
resignation which was not acted upon for more than a month after. In evidence
of the pleasant and harmonious relations always existing between the Rector
and people during his incumbency an extract from his letter of resignation is
herewith appended: ‘While this is my irrevocable purpose, I would be doing
injustice to myself, as well as to you, and to members of the Church at large,
if I did not add, that I am urged to this determination by no lack of
appreciation of the uniform kindness and consideration with which I have been
treated from the time I first became your Rector down to the present period.
It is highly creditable to the Christian spirit of the members of this church,
and to the community at large, as it will always be a source of gratifying
reflection to me, that during the entire period of my Rectorship,
nearly eight years, no unkind word ever passed between myself and any member
of the church or of the community.’ Nor
may it be improper for me to add an extract from a letter of the same date as
that of my resignation, April 11th, 1882, addressed to me by Mr. E. S. Renwick
who during my brief Rectorship contributed upwards
of $20,000 for the support of the Church and school in Millburn, over and
above his own individual obligations to the same: “For many reasons I regret
your departure and I gravely doubt whether the Vestry will be able to secure
the services of so thorough a gentleman, or so finished a reader”. This last
is added from no spirit of egotism on my part, but as an indication of the
state of feeling in the parish, at the time of my resignation, and as an
encouragement to my Successor.
Thus it was with heavy heart that Dr. Clover prepared to leave
However much the diocesan authorities were opposed by Dr. Clover and
the Vestrymen of St. Stephen’s, it was certain that they were correct in
believing that Short Hills could support a separate parish. But it was not
equally certain that
.
. . Pew #46 was vacated by me sometime last summer in a conversation had with
Mr. Condit.
.
. . I have not been a pewholder in St. Stephen’s
Church for the past seven months, having notified your treasurer.
These notes received by the treasurer meant that there would be even less income for St. Stephen’s Church.
Time has justified the decision of the Bishop and Standing Committee in
1882 to allow the formation of
The Vestrymen were so pessimistic about the future of the parish that they doubted the wisdom of calling a new rector. Instead, they asked the Reverend Theodore Holcombe to be the priest-in-charge of the parish; Mr. Holcombe was promised $1,200.00 a year, and $1,400.00, “if revenues permit”. In an effort to encourage the Vestrymen, Edward S. Renwick contributed $1,000.00 toward reducing the mortgage on the Rectory. It was determined to put the Rectory in good repair for Mr. Holcombe and his family, and a committee comprised of Israel D. Condit, Sylvanus Lyon and Walter Stabler reported in December, 1882 that -
The
Parlor, Library, and Dining Room have been handsomely papered. Other
improvements made by your committee have been the oiling of some of the
woodwork, kalsomining the kitchen and ceilings of other of the rooms,
repairing the floor of the kitchen, repairing all doors and windows where
needed. A handsome carpet has been purchased and put down in the Parlor and
Library, curtains for all the windows (the rollers for which were donated by
Mr. Stewart Hartshorn), three of the rooms in
second story nicely papered. A large cooking stove has been purchased for use
in the kitchen, and a stove for use in the library. The expenditures have been
somewhat beyond the monies at our disposal . . .
In order to pay for these repairs, an “entertainment” was held at
the Rectory on October 5th, 1882, and a concert at the new
And so the Rectory stood vacant, waiting for its next occupant. The first era in the history of St. Stephen’s Church had closed. The nation had made momentous strides since, in 1851, those first services were held in Mr. James’ Hall. The world was moving rapidly, and the change would be accelerated in the next decades. New challenges would soon be thrust upon St. Stephen’s Church, and new opportunities were to open for its service to God and the community.
Illustration
(ii):
Exterior of St. Stephen’s Church,
Bishop of the Diocese
Thomas Alfred Starkey
Rectors of St. Stephen’s Church
Theodore J. Holcombe
Albert U. Stanley
James B. Wasson
William A. Wasson
The Reverend Theodore Holcombe had agreed to come to St. Stephen’s as Priest-in-Charge, but within a few months of his arrival the Vestry felt able to name him Rector of the parish at a stipend of $1,200 a year. The revenues did not permit the $1,400 at first considered, and it would seem that Mr. Holcombe was even doubtful of the lower figure, for in his letter accepting the rectorship he said he hoped he might “count upon the salary at such time as the Vestry might designate”. Mr. Holcombe’s optimism went unrewarded. The parish deficits continued throughout 1884, 1885and 1886. In 1887 he resigned, with several months stipend owing him. It is perhaps ironic that Mr. Holcombe spent his last years in attempts at organizing a decent clergy pension plan, and because of this he rejoiced in the title of “Old Clergyman’s Friend”.
We know very little about Mr. Holcombe’s ministry in Millburn. There were, in those days, no accounts kept of Sunday church attendance and
therefore we cannot know how many of the pews were filled of a Sunday.
Inasmuch as the parish had been divided by the formation of
It was in 1883, Mr. Holcombe’s first year at St. Stephen’s, that
mention was first made of an organized” Ladies Guild”. Mrs. Holcombe was
its president. In that year the newly-formed Guild gathered $80.00 for parish
support and sent numerous boxes to missionaries. (In those days, it was the
practice for parishes to pack and send supplies to missionaries. Sometimes the
results were not too happy for the missionary, as for instance the time that
all the choir caps were mistakenly sent off to
The formation of the Ladies Guild was a positive step forward. The
Guild, and its subsidiary groups, did much in future years to augment the
income of the church. There was need of auxiliary parish organizations
especially at this time because the finances of St. Stephen’s were managed
in the old unrealistic manner. There had been sporadic gatherings of the
parish women before in efforts to raise money for special projects. It was
during Mr. Holcombe’s rectorate that the women
came into their own as an important factor of parish
support. By 1887 there was a group called the “Ernest Workers”; a
year later there was the St. Margaret’s Guild.
However helpful these women’s organizations were, a parish cannot and should not be supported mainly by distaff efforts. The yearly deficits at St. Stephen’s continued, as did the grumbling on the part of those who were called upon to pay the bills. The situation became so desperate that after Mr. Holcombe resigned the Vestry decided not to call a rector, but rather to engage a clergyman to serve as Priest-in-charge. For several months the Reverend Arthur H. Proffitt took charge of the parish while the Vestry hunted for a man who would agree to come as permanent Priest-in-charge.
This experiment, unwise and unfair, had already been attempted without success. Now the Vestry again found a man who would undertake the parish work without benefit of the title of rector: the Reverend Albert Upham Stanley. Mr. Stanley had graduated in 1863 from the General Seminary where he had been a classmate of William B. Morrow. He was also the seminary classmate of two other men well known in the Episcopal Church in the nineteenth century: George B. Hopson (long-time professor at St. Stephen’s College) and Theodore M. Riley (professor at the Seminary and biographer of Eugene A. Hoffman). Mr. Stanley’s health did not permit his remaining in a cold climate, and thus it was understood that he would take his annual vacations in the wintertime. He agreed to become the locum tenens of the parish in September, 1888.
The Vestrymen were certain that what they needed was a man who by
preaching and pastoral work would build again a strong parish in
Even before the financial picture again became acute, Mr. Stanley had a
shock in store. No one had told him that St. Stephen’s Church was subject to
annual floods. Before the days of the large artesian wells of the Commonwealth
Company, or before the
The threat of floods was one of Mr. Stanley’s concerns. The fact of parochial insolvency was another, and more constant threat. The Vestrymen expected several wealthy men to pay the deficit, and refused to consider any better scheme. Mr. Stanley knew this could not continue. He was called to be rector in 1890, and the letter he wrote to the Vestrymen at that time reveals his thoughts on financial matters:
I
ask you to allow me to delay action upon your call that I may by inquiry learn
what moral and material support I can have as Rector..
. The financial resources should, I think, be increased, and I should have
strong guarantees of a willing reliance upon my judgment in all that I may
propose for the furtherance of the parish life.. .
I believe a rectorship at this juncture can be
made, with the help of the Vestry, a new beginning in our parish life, a
gathering together of our forces for united work in building up the Church
here in Millburn. My experience of two years among you has given me full
knowledge of the needs of this work and how its difficulties are to be met. If
I am to remain here I ought to have the assurance that my support is not to
overburden the parish, and that I am to be sustained by the whole people in
every way of a Rector’s right.
Mr. Stanley felt that the parish leaders were not giving their wisest
consideration to the problems facing them. The records bear him out. He urged
that an every-member canvass be held so that all members of the church would
share in its support. The Vestry would not concur, and under the circumstances
Mr. Stanley did not in 1890 accept the call to become the rector of the
parish. Again, in 1891, he declined the call, preferring to remain in the
informal position of Priest-in-charge. He knew the church could not afford to
meet a rector’s stipend, and in a long letter he declared that the Vestrymen
were still unwilling to canvass the parish for funds. He reminded them that
there were more than fifty families who were non-contributing and who had
never been approached for contributions to the parish. He
offered to remain until “the first of October next, and no longer, at a
salary of $900.00 per year” so that the Vestry could have time once more to
remedy the bad situation. It is plain that Mr. Stanley was forcing the hand of
the Vestrymen in order that they would declare themselves to either accept or
reject him upon the conditions he laid before them. Whatever the facts, Mr.
Stanley did accept the rectorship in September,
1891. The hopes he may have had soon disappeared as the church sank in deeper
debt. A letter written to the Vestry in February, 1893 by
Gentlemen, do you, as a Vestry, know how the church is situated financially? That it is in arrears to its rector, organist, and sexton? My salary is six months in arrears, and it is impossible for me to continue to act as organist unless I receive my salary every month, as the Vestry promised I should do, which promise, I am sorry to say has proved to be only “idle words”. If the Vestry cannot afford to pay what they agreed to, surely the proper thing to do is to say so at once.
A financial report published at this time elaborates upon
It is plain that Mr. Stanley was not the man to coordinate the strength of St. Stephen’s Church, however right he may have been in his diagnosis of its problems. In a parting blast, he asserted that the Vestry had never made any real attempt to solve its problems, that the Vestrymen had no right to engage people when there was no money in sight to pay them for their services, and that the large majority of St. Stephen’s people had never been asked to bear the financial burden. Under these circumstances he was resolved:
.
. . no longer to stay here, burdening the parish
with my salary which it cannot pay, while nearly one half of the families of
the parish are not pledged supporters.
Mr. Stanley resigned in March, 1893 and moved South. He died in 1916.
The
Another vignette of the period may be included here. It had long been expected that the widower Mr. Stanley and Miss Kate Campbell would be engaged to be married. The engagement was announced one Sunday, and as it happened, the final hymn that day was “Blest Be the Tie that Binds.” During its singing, the Rector - catching the significance - swooned. Miss Campbell rushed forward to the chancel (so they say) and helped revive him. Perhaps apocryphal – but certainly a more Victorian scene cannot be imagined.
Whatever Mr. Stanley may have learned by his experiences at St. Stephen’s,
the Vestry had not learned that the experiment of having a Priest-in-charge
instead of a rector is usually fatal. Now the gentlemen turned to finding a
clergyman who would spend only a few days of a week at the church and who had
employment which would supplement what stipend the parish could afford to pay.
They found such a man in the Reverend James B. Wasson In May, 1893,
an agreement was entered into with Mr. Wasson whereby he would spend three
days a week in
Mr. Wasson’s main civic interest was the Temperance Movement.
He was active in the Civic League, whose aim was to enforce the excise laws
and municipal regulations regarding saloons. Mr. Wasson was deeply upset when
a saloon was opened in
James Wasson offered his resignation in November 1894 in a letter which said:
While
the parish is not yet entirely free from debt, it is nearly so, and in other
respects it is in a flourishing condition. It was to assist in bringing about
this happy state of affairs that I assumed the charge of the Parish, and
therefore I feel now that I can honorably lay down the work in order that
someone with more time to devote to it may carry it on.
But
aside from that, I find that the legitimate work of the Parish, and the
activities and obligations that grow out of my position as rector, can no
longer be performed by me without giving up my editorial position which,
unfortunately, I cannot afford to do.
In a letter written later, Mr. Wasson actually proposed his brother as the new rector of St. Stephen’s:
I
desire to recommend my brother, the Rev. William Alexander Wasson, Rector of
The day after this letter was written, the Vestry called the Reverend William A. Wasson to be the eleventh rector of St. Stephen’s Church. Mr. James Wasson held his final service on the last Sunday of 1894, and according to a newspaper of the time -
Many
of the parishioners were visibly affected by the sermon and at the conclusion
of the service the pastor was the recipient of many handshakes. The retiring
pastor will this week remove to
The events of the next few years fully justified James Wasson’s estimate of his brother’s ability. As soon as Mr. Wasson had settled his family in the Rectory he applied himself to the work at hand. First of all was the church’s indebtedness, including the arrears in Mr. Stanley’s salary. These were satisfied during Mr. Wasson’s first year. The parish was coordinated so well during 1895 that the next few years saw remarkable developments where, only recently, there had been a spirit of defeat and despair.
There were two strong parish organizations which were encouraged by Mr. Wasson and which, in turn, strengthened his hand: the King’s Daughters and the Men’s Bible Class. The King’s Daughters had been active for several years; their money-raising was prodigious. In the early part of 1896 they offered to install plumbing in the Rectory. When this was done, they turned to the need of a new steam furnace in the church. This, too, was accomplished, and the auxiliary stove in the church was finally removed.
The Men’s Bible Class was one of Mr. Wasson’s favorite projects, and in a short time more than 100 men were enrolled. It is remembered that on one occasion a great service was held by the Bible Class, crowded with men. Israel D. Condit, the lay founder of St. Stephen’s who had seen the church in its many vicissitudes was heard to remark, “Lord, now lettest thou thy servant depart in peace”! It was good that Mr. Condit had lived to see this renaissance of the parish he helped establish. When able, he had paid many of the bills and he had served as Warden for fifty years. He died in 1897, just as the church was embarking upon an ambitious venture: a Parish House.
It will be remembered that “a Hall” for St. Stephen’s had been mentioned some years earlier. No action could be taken then as the parish was entering the darkest days of its fiscal life. In January of 1897, the Men’s Bible Class proposed the building of a Parish House. This had been an idea in the rector’s mind, and in order to have wide support for the project, he wrote to the King’s Daughters:
As
you are probably aware, the Men’s Bible Class have
taken up the work of raising money for a parish building. I wish to suggest
that the King’s Daughters take up this same work as soon as the balance on
the furnace is raised. The need of a parish building is very pressing, and I
have not the slightest doubt that if the King’s Daughters undertake to build
it they will be as successful as they have been in everything they have
undertaken.
By the Spring of 1897, all the money-raising
efforts of the parish were directed toward providing the new Parish House.
Though there was only $10.47 in the church’s bank account in May of that
year, the vitality of St. Stephen’s Church was such that the new building
was assured. A lot owned by Mrs. Graves in
The record book of “St. Stephen’s Parish Building Account” shows that subscriptions through W. A. Wasson” amounted to $1, 308.55. A Mr. Perry paid $16.50 for the old dwelling on the lot, and Mr. Tichenor gave $12.00 for another building on the property. Even the old well cover had been sold. Subscriptions came from Mr. Chaffe, Mrs. Benedict, Mr. Silance, Mr. Wittkop, Mr. Farr, Mr. Todd, Mr. Barrell, R. W. Lewis, Richard Hopkins, James B. Wasson, E. B. Camp, Edward S. Renwick and Mr. and Mrs. L. W. Harrington. “Mrs. W. E. McCollum’s dentist” contributed $5.00. Further gifts came from Miss Howe, Mrs. Lyon, the Misses Lyon, Mr. Webb, Mr. Ayers, George C. Palmer, Mrs. Wilbur Denman, Mrs. Pettigrew, Judge Simpson, Stewart Hartshorn, Mrs. Bliss, Miss Bliss, Mr. and Mrs. Farley, Miss Hastings, Mr. Hastings, Mrs. William F. Morgan, Mrs. A. Brown, and the inevitable “Friend”. The King’s Daughters began by contributing nearly $850.00. By November, 1898 the building had been completed and every bill had been paid; its cost was $3,463.30. The carpenters received $910.00 for their work. The lumber cost $1,000.00. The architect’s fee was $50.00. In less than two years after it was decided upon, the Parish House had been built and paid for. In such a way, and at such costs, was a Parish House built - in 1898.
This Parish House was used not only for the Sunday School
and the social functions of the church. In a short time it became the town’s
meeting hail. Most of the local civic organizations used the building for
entertainments, lectures, and dances. Here was the only gymnasium in
The blessings of having a Parish House were not unmixed, however. For
years after it was built, the rector of St. Stephen’s was not only the
rector of the church and superintendent of its cemetery; he was also the
rental agent of the Parish House. Moreover, there were several
misunderstandings about the purpose and ownership of the building. Some
of the people who, though not members of the parish had encouraged its
building, thought that it should be primarily a civic center for downtown
I have often wondered how much Mr. Wasson had been influenced by the
“Social Gospel” idea which was, in his early Ministry, a strong force in
the Episcopal Church. Mr. Wasson had continued his brother’s role in the
Civic League, and his understanding of the Church in the town’s life was
broad and comprehensive. When he encouraged the building of a Parish
House
he probably hoped that it would be used for many non-ecclesiastical purposes.
He may have had in mind the work then undertaken in St. George’s
Church, or the Church of the Holy Trinity, in
Then, there was another factor. Anyone could see that
Whether the Vestry could, or could not, rise to meet the main problems
of
There was one other unfortunate addition in those days when tastes ran toward brass and gilt: a new metal Communion Rail. This was removed several years after its installation, and the present Rail, a duplicate of the original, was given by Mrs. Whittingham in memory of Israel D. Condit.
It may be that the misunderstanding regarding the use of the Parish House caused Mr. Wasson’s resignation. It is certain that he had foreseen a great and useful future for the parish, and a part of that future was already sure. His resignation was met with appeals for him to stay at St. Stephen’s, and to one group he wrote,
Permit
me to offer you my heartfelt thanks for the kind (and, I fear, undeserved)
tribute you have paid me. I wish it were possible for me to comply with your
very flattering request that I remain in
Therefore, after a Ministry singularly blessed, William Wasson left St. Stephen’s in 1899 and the parish set about to search for a rector who would go with them into the twentieth century.
Bishops of the Diocese
Thomas Alfred Starkey
Rectors of St. Stephen’s Church
James W. Van Ingen
Howard W. Gernand
As a new century dawned, the town of Millburn
presented a picture far different from that we know in mid-century.
There was, in 1900, only one house on the south side of
The congregation of St. Stephen’s Church came from the four corners
of the Township - and beyond. The Benedicts, for instance, drove horse and
buggy to church from
When William Wasson resigned the rectorate, the Vestry attempted to secure as rector a third Wasson brother, the Reverend Edmund A. Wasson. But he was unable to accept the call, and services at the church were continued by supply priests and lay readers. A call was issued to ZeBarney T. Phillips, then a senior at the General Theological Seminary, but Mr. Phillips’ bishop would not allow him to accept the call. This man, incidentally, later became rector of the Church of the Epiphany in Washington, Chaplain to the United States Senate, and finally Dean of the National Cathedral.
In the Spring of 1899, the Vestry heard of a
clergyman then in
I
regret the possible implications of ungraciousness but I should be unwilling
to take up the work at St. Stephen’s in any other way than as rector of the
Parish. The lack of confidence evidenced in the time limitation would
certainly militate against our mutual esteem and stand in the way of vigorous
hearty work together for the welfare and growth of the Parish - I therefore
decline the proposition with thanks to the Vestry for that measure of
confidence reposed in me . . .
Soundly whipped by this letter, and possibly censured by the bishop for
their irregular manner of calling a rector, the Vestry rectified the mistake,
On
One of the considerations that led Mr. Van Ingen to accept the call to St. Stephen’s was that the parish was in a flourishing condition, as was evidenced by the new Parish House. One of his first problems as rector of the parish was the use of this building. We have seen that there was a division of opinion as to its proper function, and since the Vestry had decided that the building was primarily for parish work, it was now necessary to form a policy of rental to outside interests. Accordingly, a Vestry committee was fixed to superintend the Parish House, but as time went on the actual responsibilities for the quasi-municipal building fell more and more upon the shoulders of the rector. One of the first public uses of the building was the cooking school established there by Mrs. Stewart Hartshorn in 1900. She provided water service in the Parish House for this purpose; originally, there was only a well and pump for the building. Soon after, a Tennis Club was organized, and permission was granted the club to build courts on the Parish House property. In 1903, the King’s Daughters wanted to further improve the property, but the Vestry demurred stating that it was soon “to be moved on to the corner plot”. It is uncertain what caused this decision; possibly, there was already a feeling that the Parish House should be annexed to the church, as was later done.
There were, at this time, several buildings on the church grounds which have since disappeared. There was, for instance, the Gothic outhouse which, since plumbing came into the Rectory, was no longer needed. And there was a little barn, and the horse sheds. In 1903 the rector took three of the horse sheds and converted them for the use of his own horse and carriage. Carriages and bicycles were the modes of travel for the rectors of St. Stephen’s until Mr. Dickinson’s time.
All of the parish buildings (except the outhouse) were of frame construction, and there were always problems of upkeep, and the fear of fire. In 1905 there was a fire that threatened to destroy the church. Mr. Warner, a Vestryman, was passing the church late one evening when he saw smoke pouring from the windows. He turned in an alarm. The firemen found the cellar ablaze. Hot ashes from the furnace had ignited the floor joists at the west end of the church. The fire was soon under control, but most of the flooring at that end of the church was burned and required replacement. The half-burned joists may be seen in the cellar; they were so thick that, though half-burned, they still do service.
Kerosene lamps were used in both church and rectory, and this meant constant danger of fire. After the nearly-disastrous fire so fortunately discovered by Mr. Warner, gas pipes were installed in the church and rectory, at a cost of $150.00. A year later, Mr. Van Ingen had a telephone put in the rectory.
During Mr. Van Ingen’s rectorate St. Stephen’s began using a vested choir. The choir always had had a small space reserved near the organ, in the northeast corner of the nave. It now moved to the chancel, using as stalls the sidelia which had been there since 1854. Eventually, more stalls were added. This arrangement, never very satisfactory in a church not designed for a chancel choir, continued until Eastertide, 1958.
The yearly financing of the parish had for years been augmented by the
labors of various organizations. The King’s Daughters had been active and
affluent for years, but in time their prominence was assumed by the “Ladies’
Guild”. In addition, there was the St. Agnes Guild and the “Buds of
Promise”, an organization for younger people. There seems to have been no
Altar Guild at this time; that work was done by one or two women of the
parish.
One of the money-raising projects was printing a cookbook, using the
favorite receipts of members of the parish. Such a cook-book was compiled by
St. Stephen’s people in 1907. Its contributors included Mrs. Barnes, Miss E.
W. Lincoln, Mrs. E. L. Carter, Mrs. Bodwell, Mrs.
T. C. Kessler, Mrs. Douglass, Mrs. Warner, Mrs. Couzens,
Mrs. W. F. Denman, Harriet Park Condit, Martha J. Condit,
Mrs. Elmer Taylor, Mrs. F. Woodruff, Mrs. Tenner,
Miss Julia Hayes, Mrs. Schenck, Mrs. F. Stoeckle,
C. E. Condit, Mrs.
Noble, Mrs. J. M. Drake, Mrs. F. M. Marshall, Mrs. D. E. English, Mrs. Roger
Marshall, Mrs. John Hamilton, Miss M. Amelia Park, Miss Jessie Pratt, Mrs.
Frank Livingston, Mrs. C. W. Cox, Mrs. James Morrison, Mrs. Walker, Miss
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In its lifetime (long, by American standards)
Throughout Mr. Van Ingen’s ministry in Millburn, the Parish House in Church Street was both a blessing and a bane. It was a blessing because it was the church’s educational and social building. it was a curse because its care was a steady drain upon the resources and patience of the rector and Vestry. There were constant appeals for its use. In 1913, there was a suggestion that motion pictures be shown there. For some reason, this proposal was vigorously denied, but the following year a trial was made of pictures in the Parish House. They were, of course, silent films. Someone would play the piano to accompany the movie, and the experiment was successfully continued for several years.
We of today regard Millburn as a township integrated into the suburban network of municipalities, and forget that until the l920’s it was a semi-rural village. The population of the entire township in 1910 was perhaps 3,000. But there were distinct signs of change. The farms fell into disuse and changed hands as, one by one, the older owners died. Streets were mapped through orchards and hayfields. These changes produced the beginning of a situation we know well: St. Stephen’s is a parish of far-flung geographical boundaries. By the time of the First World War there were many Springfield families connected with St. Stephen’s, and in 1917 the year of “Gasless Sundays”, the Vestry hired a ‘bus to go there and bring children to Sunday School.
In the Fall of 1917, Mr. Van Ingen resigned the rectorship. His had been the longest tenure of any rector of St. Stephens. The people in the parish, and the community at large, did not like to see the genial Van Ingen family leave Millburn . For years the rectory had been an open house especially to the young people who were friends of the five Van Ingen children. Mr. Van Ingen’s ministry in Millburn , and his leadership in civic committees, had made him highly respected. Fortunately, he never moved far from Millburn and was frequently in the chancel of his old church. He died in 1935.
After Mr. Van Ingen left St. Stephen’s, the Reverend F. L. Pennock took services until a new rector could be found. While the Vestry was seeking the next rector, the township authorities, upon examination, made severe restrictions upon the use of the parish house. The building was declared unsafe for public use. Thereupon, the Vestry ordered the building closed and considered deeding it to the town for use as a civic center.
Before a definite decision about the use of the parish house was made,
the Vestry called the Reverend Howard W. Gernand
to be rector of St. Stephen’s Church. Mr. Gernand
was born in
Mr. Gernand entered upon his ministry at
St. Stephen’s with vigor. His arrival was coeval with new growth in
The brief rectorate of Mr. Gernand at St. Stephen’s is fully recorded in the Minutes of the Vestry. He had many ideas which aroused - and possibly shocked - the parish. Inasmuch as the Parish House had been declared unsafe, and its future was uncertain, the Sunday School was moved into the church building. The pews at the west end of the nave were removed and stored in one of the barns. That section of the church was curtained off, and classes met there. The parish house was occasionally used by local groups, but it would seem that St. Stephen’s was anxious to dispose of the building. There was some talk of having a new “Guild House” built on the church property.
The parish house negotiations took a new turn in December, 1919, when some people claimed that the place belonged to the town, and not to St. Stephen’s. This was, again, the old trouble brought about by misunderstandings when the parish house was built. The Vestry thought of selling the parish house to the Neighborhood Association, and discussions were carried on for some time until the Association signified disinterest. An unsatisfactory offer was received from the Junior Order of American Mechanics, and rejected. Finally, in September 1921, the parish house was sold to Richard T. Bunnell.
Mr. Gernand was anxious not only to sell the Parish House - but the Church, too. He thought St. Stephen’s should be in a different location, and he hoped that the old church property would be sold and a new, stone church built somewhere else. He had in mind the site now occupied by the Millburn Post Office. He described this project to a number of people, but there was too much affection for the old church and rectory. The people of St. Stephen’s were interested in keeping their church, not in selling it. Therefore, a program of general repair began. Electricity and water were provided for the church, and the new concrete gate posts were given. In 1922, electric wires were put in the rectory.
In August, 1921, Mr. Gernand resigned
to become rector of the House of Prayer in
During Mr. Gernand’s time at
Bishops of the Diocese
Edwin Stevens Lines
Wilson Reiff Stearly
Benjamin Martin Washburn
Leland Stark
Rectors of St. Stephen’s Church
Hugh Wentworth Dickinson
James Elliott Lindsley
In the interim between rectors, the services at St. Stephen’s were held by the Reverend William Price. An appointed committee of the Vestry meanwhile searched for a new rector.
It so happened that a recently ordained clergyman, the Reverend Hugh
Wentworth Dickinson, was at this time vicar of two small missions in
For the next thirty-five years, Mr. Dickinson was to be identified with
Millburn. Born in St. Kitts,
Just before Mr. Dickinson and his family came to St. Stephen’s, the
rectory was put into good order. The church, also, was somewhat beautified by
the addition of a carpet runner, purchased from Hahne’s
at a cost of $47.39. Services in the church had been heretofore held on
Sundays at the hours of 8:00,
There was also a larger problem to be settled: What about a parish house? The old building and its property had been sold. Clearly, the Sunday School and the parish activities could not continue indefinitely to use the curtained-off west end of the church. After some thought was given to the possibilities of building a new parish house, it seemed feasible to buy the old parish house and move it to the churchyard where it could be annexed to the west end of the church. The decision to do this was taken by the Vestry in September, 1922. The cost of moving was to be $675.00; the building itself cost $1,000.00, exclusive of the land, which now belonged to the Neighborhood Association.
The old parish house was thus again owned by St. Stephen’s Church. It was moved across the street and connected to the church by a low ceilinged shed which henceforth provided room for the choir lockers. When this was done, the old “sexton’s porch” was necessarily removed, and thus passed what might be called a landmark. For the ‘‘sexton’s porch’’ was little more than a closet where the sexton stored his cleaning materials. But it also served another purpose: for years, brides had hidden in this little place at the head of the main aisle until the wedding march began. Then the bride of the day would step out of the closet and begin her way down the aisle.
In May, 1926,
As 1928 drew near, the parish found an appropriate way in
which to celebrate its seventy-fifth anniversary: the repair and complete
decoration of the church building. A fund was subscribed to accomplish this
work. All the old plaster and lath was removed and a rough plaster applied to
the interior walls. This meant that the old-time smooth finish was gone, and
it also meant the loss of the molded decorations around the windows and
chancel arch. The chancel itself was tiled, and linoleum was laid in the
aisles. New pew cushions were made, new doors to the church vestibule, and the
first Benedict window of stained glass was given. All was in readiness for the
great festival service on the occasion of the seventy-fifth anniversary of St.
Stephen’s Church building. In addition to the festive service there was a
parish meeting. Miss Bailey read a history of the church, and
The Great Depression followed the stock market collapse in the Fall of ‘29, and every church that I know was affected. Many personal incomes were reduced, and people had less with which to support a church which they genuinely loved. A metropolitan residential area like Millburn was especially hard-hit by the Depression. But parish life proceeded. A new garage - the new pipe organ for the church - the Boy Scout troop - the new heating system in the rectory – major repairs to the church steeple: all of these were part of the St. Stephen’s picture in the depths of the Depression.
There were two other aspects of parish life in this
period which deserve mention. The first is the custom of holding “Homecoming
Sundays”. There is no more poignant sign
of the change of
The other
great development in the parish took place in 1936: the complete landscaping
of St. Stephen’s Cemetery. The cemetery entrance had been a simple gateway
flanked by a rail fence. In 1936 Edward S. Pettigrew
conceived the idea of a handsome stone gateway and iron fence, paved roads,
and dramatic plantings of rhododendron and azalea for the cemetery. This work
was carried out, and the cemetery entrance has been ever since one of the
splendid places in
The old manner of conducting matters always comes under eventual survey, and so it was with St. Stephen’s Cemetery. People wanted perpetual care for their plots, especially after the Pettigrew gift. The Vestrymen did not feel that they should be responsible for the endowments of the cemetery. They recognized that its care devolved too much upon the personal decisions of the Rector. Therefore, in 1952, all cemetery endowments were placed in the hands of a bank which holds the trustee account. The large share of plot payments was to go to a perpetual endowment fund, the interest to provide care of the cemetery. Under present arrangement, the church is paid a small amount for its oversight of the grounds; all purchase monies go directly into the trust fund. The endowment of St. Stephen’s Cemetery is now listed in excess of $110,000.00.
There is one other development of the 1930’s which ought to be mentioned: the efforts toward building a new parish house. The matter arose in 1939. Plans were drawn by the local architect, Oscar B. Smith, but in the end nothing came of the project and it died in the days of World War II. Instead of a new building, the old parish house was refurbished and a new heating plant was installed.
The war of l939 –l945 brought many changes. In the first place, many young men went forth from the parish. Two never returned to their homes. Charles Sutton and Edward Phillips. A second change, brought about by fuel rationing, meant that many old-timers living far away could not attend St. Stephen’s. But there was one happy result of gasoline rationing. A group of women in the neighborhood wanted to form together to work for the war effort, and to meet socially. The effect of this was the “Evening Group” which eventually was to form a branch of the Diocesan Woman’s Auxiliary. Meanwhile, the Woman’s Guild, which had been in existence for many years, continued its work for the parish and the diocese. In 1959 these two groups merged, and formed the “Women of St. Stephen’s.”
St. Stephen’s Church celebrated the centennial anniversary of its founding in 1951. The chairman of the celebration was Mr. Marshall Hettrick. The Vestry planned to mark the important event by putting the Parish House in order. Two Vestrymen, Dr. Richard Wearn and Mr. Ralph Williams were a committee to superintend this work. A parish-wide fund of more than $10,000.00 was subscribed. At a great festival service held in the church, Governor Alfred Driscoll addressed a large congregation.
The
It was in Lent, 1957 that Mr. Dickinson presented his resignation, to
take effect on the 15th of June following. Thus his ministry in
When,
in 1921, the Vestrymen of St. Stephens Church began their search for a rector
to succeed the Reverend Howard W. Gernand, they
did not realize that the clergyman that would call would remain the rector of
St. Stephen’s for thirty-five years. The rectorship
of Hugh Wentworth Dickinson is the longest in the history of the parish, and
one of the longest in the history of the Diocese of
For
thirty-five years, Hugh Dickinson was a part of
When
he retired, in 1957, Mr. Dickinson could look back upon all these problems he
had faced. And he could look, too, to a parish which had, in a measure,
adapted itself to the new ways. Early in his ministry here the Parish House
had been moved across
Hugh
Dickinson will be remembered here for some time. And then (because human
memory is short, so soon pass we all away) his name and the dates of his rectorate
will remain on the brass tablet which, in St. Stephen’s, tells the visitor
of those who have ministered here. Long after those who knew him have passed
away, the stranger will look at that tablet, will see there “Hugh Wentworth
Dickinson, 1922-1957”, will think of that epochal time span in human
history, and will admire a man who spent that time in caring for the welfare
of others. May he rest in peace.
The clergyman chosen to succeed Mr. Dickinson at St. Stephen’s was
the author of these pages. Whatever may be said of him should be said in the
future. That I was born in
There are two phases of work at St. Stephen’s Church which ought to be related here because both have been brought about by the earnest efforts of the people of this church, especially by the leadership of the Wardens and Vestrymen.
Immediately prior to Mr.
The Vestry was encouraged by this parish meeting. Frederick Thompson drew up tentative plans and a New Building Committee was formed. The members of this committee were: David H. Brown, Frederick Thompson, Andrew J. Turner, Richard B. Wearn, Sheldon Cady and C. Lawrence Keller. Mr. Keller was chosen chairman. The committee visited those neighboring churches which had recently built parish houses. Our committee asked those churchpeople what mistakes, in retrospect, they felt had been made, and what suggestions they had for improving on current parish house designs. The results of these consultations were incorporated in the plans for St. Stephen’s Church House: wide halls, class-rooms of ample size, a very large reception room, doors spaced in order that sound would be lessened. One other result was found: a professional money-raiser would be well worth the cost. A friend of St. Stephen’s, Aubrey G. Lanston, gave the fee for the campaign and therefore all the campaign contributors knew that their gifts would go directly toward actual building. The campaign for the new building was held in the spring of 1960; $75,000.00 was rapidly subscribed. The donors were not only members of the parish. There were others beyond our membership who believed St. Stephen’s Church has an honorable history, and a promising future. They were glad to help assure its welfare in days to come.
So we built. Ground was broken in September, 1960. The foundation was laid up to the first floor course by the time of the first of many blizzards in that treacherous winter of 1960-61. By early spring, the work began again. The building was ready for occupancy in early summer. The cornerstone was laid with solemnity and gratitude on St. Barnabas’ Day. In the cornerstone were placed a Cross, a Bible, a Prayer Book, and a list of the officers of the parish and the diocese, together with coins of 1961. The Bible, incidentally, was one carried by a Civil War soldier; a bullethole in it tells that it saved his life. The coins were placed in an old change purse belonging to my grandmother.
So we have built. Now we step with certainty into the future. The story
of a parish church - past and future – is never told in terms of the
buildings it owns, however much those buildings have seen, and reflect, the
faith of its people. The real story lies behind all this. It goes deeper than
visible failure and visible success. For the true history and the true worth
of
Illustration
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Cemetery Lodge
GIFTS AND MEMORIALS
No list of gifts to St. Stephen’s Church can be complete because the records of many gifts have been lost, and other gifts have, by their nature, worn out and been discarded. The following will serve as the most accurate possible account of the gifts and memorials in the parish.
The
Buildings
The land on which the church stands was given by Israel D. Condit, and the church was built largely at his expense. It was Mr. Condit who also gave the cemetery property. His generosity should always be honored by us.
The Rectory was built through the efforts of the entire congregation; Mr. Edward S. Renwick was responsible for liquidating the mortgage. He furnished the Rectory when it was built.
The first Parish House, built in
The Church House, built in 1960-1961 was the result of a large canvass of parishioners and friends of St. Stephen’s. There are memorial rooms in the Church House:
The entrance hall, in memory of the Reverend Harry Bruce.
A classroom in memory of Dorothy S. Ackerman.
A classroom in memory of Russell B. Kingman.
A room in memory of Aubrey Gilpin Lanston.
The
Sacristy and Sanctuary
The Altar Cross was given in memory of Charlotte Elizabeth Jones Young, 1889.
Another brass Cross was given in memory of Lieut. Charles Edward Sutton.
Another pair of silver candlesticks was the gift of Mary Howard Keasbey.
Pair of brass
vases, in memory of
Pair of brass vases, in memory of Lt. Charles Edward Sutton.
Pair of brass vases, in memory of Herbert Hope Macomber.
Pair of brass vases, in memory of Stella Evangeline Baker.
Pair of brass vases, in memory of Milton R. Silance.
Pair of brass vases, in memory of Alta Hamilton Robinson.
Brass Missal stand, in memory of Horace Park.
Needlepoint Missal stand, made and given by Edna A. King.
Seven-branch
candlesticks, given by the
The Communion Missal, given by perpetual endowment, in memory of Eugenie Mathews Cassedy.
Pavement Lights, in memory of Emma Anna Mathews.
The Bishop’s Chair was purchased by the parish in 1861.
The Altar Rail was given in memory of Israel Dodd Condit.
The silver Communion service was given in honor of the occasion of the Institution of the Rev. George C. Pennell, second rector.
The large silver ciboriurm, used on festival occasions, was given in 1861 by the parishioners to mark their appreciation of Israel D. Condit, who had just borne the expense of completing the church building.
A silver Alms Bason was also given in honor of Israel D. Condit.
The ciborium in general use was given in memory of Mary A. Hamilton.
Two silver cruets, given in memory of Lieut. Edward Elliot Phillips.
A lavabo bowl was given in memory of M. Amelia Park.
A private Communion set was given in 1960 by the family of the Rev. Thomas W. Attridge.
A Communion set for the reserved Sacrament was given in 1961 in memory of the Rev. Harry Bruce who for five years assisted at the services of the church.
A new altar cross was given in memory of Hazel Brown.
Eucharistic candlesticks were given in memory of Adrian F. Dedecker.
Vestments
The red and white Eucharistic sets were given in memory of the Reverend Harry Bruce.
The violet Eucharistic vestments were made by Margaret A. Dormand; the violet frontal was also made by Mrs. Dormand and was given in memory of Laura W. Kendall by members of her family.
The green Eucharistic vestments were given in memory of the parents of Mrs. Richard Ernst, and were made by Margaret A. Dormand.
The green frontal was the gift of Mr. and Mrs. William F. Cassedy, Jr.
The white frontal was the gift of the Evening Group.
The red frontal was purchased by the
parishioners, and was made in
Many of the fair linen cloths, purificators, corporals and Communion veils were made by Eugenie M. Cassedy or Margaret A. Dormand.
The
Nave
The pulpit was restored in 1958 by John McCollum, and is a memorial to the Rev. James W. Van Ingen, twelfth Rector.
The Lectern was given in memory of Kennard Le Roy Denman and Edward Percival Denman, 1904.
The Lectern steps were made and given by Albert Shoemaker, 1960.
The Litany Desk was given in memory of Thomas B. Hand and Mary Brough Hand.
The Baptistery Shelf was given in memory of George Bell Goff, 1959.
A hymnboard
was given in memory of Isabella Nichols Wright and Robert Francis Wright.
Another hymnboard was given by the
The
Windows
The original glass in St. Stephen’s Church was probably specified by the architect as being most suitable for the type of building he envisioned. Subsequent gifts of memorial stained or painted glass windows have been made:
The Baptistery window was given in memory of Sarah Benden Dow.
The Nativity window was given in memory of Phebe Elizabeth Benedict.
The Visit of the Kings window was given in memory of Martha Cooper Benedict.
The St. Luke windows were provided by a bequest in memory of Watson Budlong Morris, M. D.
The Baptism of Christ window was given in memory of Matilda B. Baker, Harold H. Baker, Joseph I. Baker, Ralph H. Baker, and Stella E. Baker.
The Entry into
The window of Christ and the children was given in memory of Joseph I. Baker, Jessica Baker, and Benjamin Baker.
The Ascension window was given in memory of Frank Marshall Schmidt and Ada Marshall Schmidt.
Variorum
The original lectern Bible belonging
to the parish, and marked “St. Stephen’s Church,
The lectern Bible presently in use was given in memory of Israel D. Condit.
The organ was installed by the parish in honor of Miss M. Amelia Park, for many years organist and directress of the choir. The chimes in the organ were given in memory of Matilda Hayward Baker.
The Cross atop the steeple of the church was given in memory of William John Hamilton, the first child baptized in the church.
An American flag, set in the west wall of the church, was the gift of the Pittenger family in memory of Mary Louise Pittenger.
A brass tablet, marking the rectors of St. Stephen’s and set in the west wall of the church, was given in memory of Charles William Cox, Warden, 1905-1910.
A Processional Cross was given in 1923 in memory of Mr. and Mrs. John Gentzel.
A Processional Cross was given in 1957 in honor of William B. Brown.
Two torches were made and given by William F. Cassedy, Jr. in 1960.
The Baptistery ewer was given in memory of Frank and Augusta Woodruff.
The vestibule doors were the gift of the Baker family.
Wardens of St. Stephen’s Church
Wardens
Israel D. Condit
1853-1897
George W.
Campbell 1853-1857
Charles F.
Osborne 1858-1859
John M.
Crowell 1860-1862
Lawrence Benedict 1863-1890
J. Burkitt Webb 1890
Bertram
Young 1891-1892
George M. Keasbey, Jr. 1893-1894
Joshua Benedict 1895-1920
William S.
Scott 1897-1898
W. Fellowes
Morgan 1899-1902
John McQuilkin
1903
Arthur Tepper
1904, 1911-1915
Charles W.
Cox 1905-1910
W. R. Whittingham 1915-1919
Irving
F. Livingston 1919-21, 1923-1956
Hobart
L. Benedict 1921-1947
R. R. Hess
1947-1948
Thomas H.
Clark 1949-1953
Marshall W. Hettrick 1953-1956
Thomas C. Kienzle
1956-1960
David H. Brown 1956-1962
Frederick Thompson 1960-
Richard B. Wearn
1962-
Vestrymen (1853 -1882)
Isaac M. Hand 1853-1870
Hugh Allcock
1853-1867
Isaac Martin 1853-1863
Amzi Condit
1853-1869
William Marshall 1853-1878
Thomas C. Bradbury 1853-1867
Edward Clayton 1853
Samuel Bailey, Jr. 1854-1870
William Bodwell
1860-1872
William Kissam
1861
Bazilla Hegeman 1863
C. H. Botsford
1863-1865
Isaac S. Connett
1864-66, 1873-75
Stephen A. Kitchell
1866-1871
Israel D. Condit,
Jr. 1867-1871
Edward S. Renwick
1869-1882
G. W. Campbell, Jr.1869-74,’82-‘89,’92
Edward S. Hand 1870-1872
A. H. Dyett
1870-1872
Francis R. Condit
1872
Horace Park 1872-1886
Philander
J. Bodwell 1872-1880
H. J. Hopwood 1872-1878
J. F. Chamberlin
1874-1881
James W. Pirrson
1874-1888
William H. Emerson 1876-1894
Edward T. Whittingham 1879-1881
DeLancey Cleveland 1879-1880
Sylvanus R. Lyon 1881-1887
D. Stewart Cameron 1881-1891
James R. Pitcher 1881
Walter Stabler 1882-1885
Thomas H. Bradbury 1882
W. M. Dean 1882
Vestrymen (1884 – 1899)
Lambert V. B. Cameron 1884-1887
John S. White 1885-1889
G. W. Terlinda 1886
R. W. Whittingham 1886-87, 1889
Joshua P. Benedict, Jr. 1887-1893
Pratt 1887
J. B. Webb 1889
Charles E. Cox 1888
Edward B. Renwick 1888
Bertram Young 1890
Frank Skelding 1890
John D. Gentzel 1890-1891
Daniel McQuilkin, Jr. 1890-1893
James Morrison 1891-1895, 1899
J. K. Clark 1891
George M. Keasbey 1892
William S. Scott 1892-1896
George C. Palmer 1893-1895
Edward Pettigrew 1893
George M. Taylor 1894-1899
Lewis W. Barrington 1894-1904
G. J. Vogel 1895-1897
W. Eugene McCollum 1895-1909
Arthur Tepper 1896-1903, 1907-10
Robert S. Oliver 1897-1900
W. Fellowes Morgan 1898
John McQuilkin 1899-1901
Vestrymen (1900- 1963)
Edward S. Renwick 1901
Frank Livingston 1902-1903
Charles W. Cox 1904
W. P. Neel 1904
W. F. Denman 1905
E. L. Carter 1905-1909
C. E. Ambler 1906
T. C. Griffiths
1908-1921
Edward B. Camp 1909-1919
Clarence McCollum 1910-1913
Clifford Lyon 1911-1914
Harry Ayers 1913-1917
J. Wesley Drake 1915-1923
Robert S. Oliver, Jr. 1917-1925
F. M. Schmidt 1917-1923
Claude Prange
1918-1919
D. W. Littell,
Jr. 1919-1923
J. Alfred Taylor 1920-1921
Joseph G. Beckman 1921-1930
Charles H. Fuller 1921-1923
Charles Phillips 1923-1932
George B. Goff 1923-1929
A. B. Anderson 1923-1925
Harold W. Bailey 1925-1927
Henry Wittkop
1925
J. S. Henthorn
1925-1934
Thomas S. Clark 1926-1951
Frank A.
Cameron 1928-1931
William Bonynge
1929-1939
John E. Berlenbach 1930-1937
Fred H. Allendorf 1932-1938
Frederick Itell 1933
William B. Clark 1933-1941
T. Cyril Sayers 1933-1946
W. W. Sears
T. C. Todhunter 1934
William B. Matthews 1935-1938
John S. Huntoon 1936-1948
Roland L. Lewan 1937-1939
Charles B. Kane 1938-1941
Earl G. Rumpf 1941-1946
Thomas C. Kienzle 1942-1957
Henry Krautter 1944-1949
Oakley T. Jackson 1946-1952
George H. Trundle 1946-1953
George N. Hall 1947
John Runyon 1948
Robert G. Smith 1948-1960
Ralph Williams 1949-58
Richard B. Wearn 1950-1962
L. A. Byam, Jr. 1951
William H. Buckley 1952
James C. Barnaby 1952-54
William H. Sale 195 3-57
David H. Brown 1953-56
Frederick Thompson 1954-59
William Sorensen 1954-57, 1958
William Stoeckle 1956
Leonard Howarth 1957-1960
Ferd W. Krumbholz 1957-
Julius G. Theile 1959-
Andrew J. Turner 1959-
John A. Lord 1960-
Sheldon H. Cady 1960-
Warren Dederick 1961-
G. Lawrence Keller 1962-
Sherburne Hart 1962-
Louis Kelsey 1962-
Richard Brown 1962-
C. Perry King 1963
A. Sherburne Hart 1963
William A. Stoeckle 1963
Spencer E. Sisco 1963
John R. Sheneman 1963
Israel D. Condit
1853-1896
George Campbell 1853
Amzi Condit
1853-59, 1863, 1867
Hugh Allcock
1854
Samuel Bailey 1856-59, 1866
John M. Crowell 1860
E. T. Whittingham
1861, 1871, 1872
William Elphinstone
1863-65
Edward Baker 1864
Thomas Bradbury 1867
Benjamin Potts 1869
Edward S. Renwick
1870-1911
J.
S. White 1889
B. Young 1891, 1892
Joshua F. Benedict 1896-1922
William S. Scott 1897
William F. Morgan 1898-1901
John McQuilkin
1903
Arthur Tepper
1904, 1913
Charles W. Cox
1905-1907
George M. Taylor 1908, 1912
Frederick
A. Farley 1909, 1910, 1914
T. C. Griffith 1911, 1912
Harry A. Ayres 1913
Irving F. Livingston 1914, 1931-1942
Hobart
L. Benedict 1915-46, 1948-1959
Robert S. Oliver 1915, 1916, 1921
Wilbur F. Denman 1917
Edward B. Camp 1918-21
J. W. Littell
1919
John McCollum 1920
Joseph S. Beckman 1922-29
Henry Wittkop
1923-25
J. S. Henthorn
1927-31, 1933
J.
Berlenbach 1934, 1935
W. B. Matthews 1936
F. H. Allendorf
1937
C. B. Kane 1929-1940
Thomas C. Kienzle
1941, 1944
Alson Brandes
1943, 1944
Earl G. Rumpf
1945, 1946
Charles Phillips 1945-1955
Henry Krautter
1947-1949
Robert G. Smith 1950
Oakley T. Jackson 1951, 1952
Dorothy D. Williams 1953, 1954
Hazel G. Brown 1955, 1960
William Stoeckle
1955
Carmen Catapano
1957
Kathleen Eppinger
1957
Victor A. Bracht
1959
Edna J. Lord 1959
Barbara Cady 1961, 1962
E. Burton
Henry 1961
Hazel Trundle 1962
David H. Brown 1962